– Having Different Visions Of The Future
It’s so easy to get caught up in your own personal fantasies of your perfect future with the one you love I mean let’s be real some people are even imagining their perfect wedding right after a first date but sometimes these seemingly innocent imaginary montages can ruin your relationship completely a lot of the time we expect our partner to have the same view of the future as we do Oh mark and I are gonna have two kids a house in the suburbs and six dogs in a month later you find out that mark doesn’t want to have kids loves his downtown apartment and is a cat person BAM your dreams are shattered the best way to handle it is to get into a relationship with no major expectations early on you’ll love this guy you want to be with him what more do you want you can cross every bridge when you get there although if you have strong opinions about certain things for example you’re absolutely sure that you don’t want to have kids you should probably discuss it beforehand to be on the same page
